the last thing I feel comfortable with is seeing the ball hard over. To me, that is spin entry territory, and a spin is not the objective.
Yes, but the stall will occur first and provided you recover from the stall the spin will not develop.
In a perfect aeroplane with perfect rigging, flown perfectly in balance with no propellor effects, both wings will stall at the same time and a wing would not drop.
As these conditions will not exist, if you want the aircraft to stall both wings at the same time, I would suggest that the rudder is used to prevent or induce a yaw to try to cause each wing to stall at the same time. To achieve this may well involve the balance ball not being centered but the result is each wing will stall at the same point due to all the variables being equal.