If we're name-calling...
Relic-of-a-bygone-age - if you have something to say regarding the RAF Club (which I guess you have been a member of for quite some time), proper form would be to address the RAF Club. You bang on about standards and their terminal decline, yet pick and choose when you tell us how an Officer should behave and when you whinge on an open forum.
I say again - take it up with the RAF Club. I can help address the envelope and the cost of a stamp if you wish!