You pilots won't be so happy when you are unable to find any crew who can afford to go out for a drink with you.
Betty girl, I have stayed quiet so far but I have to say something now. That is a rather arrogant view to hold... I don't beg "you cabin crew" to come out when downroute. If they want to, fine, if not then I don't really care. I don't think having your company is as valuable as you think.