sorry you can't see it--
even after the AA started his turn--i think i can hear in the ATC's voice "okay, he's doing what he thinks he needs to do--let's move on--i've got aircraft coming at me like there's no tomorrow."
any pilot that doesn't respect any ATC is simply ignorant and any ATC that doesn't respect pilots is simply ignorant as well. if they knew more about each other, they still might not agree on all points, but they would have respect.