Well, I suggest y'all try Tony Kern's "Redefining Airmanship".
Good airmanship requires
1. Personal discipline
2. Skill
3. Proficiency
Once this is in place, one needs to have good knowledge of
1. Self
2. Team
3. Risk
4. Environment
5. Aircraft
6. Mission
This will lead to better Situational Awareness, thus enabling you to exercise good judgement which, in turn, promotes good airmanship.
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