How can this be rape? By whom and when.
Oh Lord, you really are so up yourself that you can't see that?
By YOU!!!!
Your boyfriend thought that he was going out with a WOMAN. He wasn't, you'd bamboozled him into going out with another man.
If you'd done that to many men you'd be lucky to survive the natural result.
Please remember that although you regard this "gender reassignment" as somehow "normal" or God forbid, "natural" it is by any biological, physical or psychological asessment totally and utterly unnatural.
This is in no way discrminatory or bigoted, this is a straightforward statement of natural and self-evident fact. To most people it is
your attitude that
your bizarre bahaviour
must be accepted as "normal" that is bigoted and totally incomprehensible, and the reason why your job applications are not working. Is it really fair to expect an employer to hire you when he knows your presence will upset and offend the greater part of their customers? Wake up!
Sorry, but the dictatorship of the loony minorities over the rest of us has to be stopped. That is not democracy, any more than freakish medical sexual engineerig is moral or acceptable to the decent majority of the population who are sick to death of having this kind of awfulness stuffed down their throats..
I'll get my coat...