Kirsty,
I dont get the point here... are you trying to be sympathetic while trying to shed some tears here??? trying to move someones heart while sharing all your personal stuff??? to be honest i dont think anybody here cares how much you paid for your brest surgery or hormons therapy... and personally I wouldnt favour a sexually disordered individuals mainly because they are a constant "distraction" and believe me I do have a helluva lot of reasons more for why I wouldnt hire a transexual in my division... I'm talking for myself of course! (but it seems that I'm not the only one sharing this ideal) so please make me a favour cut the effen crap!!!!