If I buy the farm, and manage to check out PPrune from the "other side", I would be gratified to see messages of condolence, and/or understanding with regard to my accident.
I would also suggest that friends or relatives of anybody killed in an accident would like to see some compassion in a forum like this, especially so soon after the event. Aviation, albeit a worldwide occupation, still seems like a community and it is good to see that people have feelings.