hi,toefike..:-) you're my sun ray what about all the questions..
thank you! yeah,of course,I am honest,I wrote I live separated,it's also one of the multiple choice posiibilities in the application...2 years ago I already applied with the staus "married"- no answer, now I understand why...but I did everything I could, anyway if there is even no answer, I'll go for AD...
It's great such a forum exists- you don't feel alone :-))