Half a lifetime ago, as a new S/O, I flew with a Captain who's attitude and words remain etched on my memory chip.
- Firstly, he said, "My name's Graham. If you call me Captain I'll suspect something's wrong."
- Secondly, "We treat everyone with respect unless they prove not to deserve it."
- Thirdly, "If you think somethings not right, say so. If you think it's not right, it probably isn't. If it is right, you've just learnt something."
"Now lets go and have a good time."
....and we did.