Commiserations Slasher, and genuinely so, from somebody who hasn't always seen eye to eye with you. Fate can be a real bastard sometimes, and you've had a nasty run of luck. The death of a parent is difficult at best, horrendous at worst, and often something we are left to deal with ourselves.
I join with the others here in hoping there's no lasting damage to you personally from your other misfortunes, and wish you a speedy return to JB.