Hi Paddy
How are things?
As someone who sees it all the bliddy time I personally think there is something sociopathic about people who seem to think that the rules do not apply to them
Whether sociopathic or not (and it may be), it needs a firm reaction.
Too often, one sees people wandering around the cabin with the belt sign on and cabin crew not reacting (never on your mob
in my experience.)
By failing to stop people behaving this way, the crew are conditioning them (training) that this behaviour is okay - and it is not.