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Old 31st Jan 2010, 21:48
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Horatio Leafblower
 
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In any rewarding career there are sacrifices to be made. Aviation is no different and when you get to the top of the tree you have a lot more say in what goes on with your lifestyle.

My brother-in-law is a property analyst for a top-5 investment bank and works 6 days/week from 8am to 8pm every week, and more (much more) through the reporting season.

Wife's brother-in-law is a partner in a large country accounting firm. He has it pretty good now, but to get there he had to prostitute himself working for a big firm in the city 12-14 hour days etc.

My sister is a Psychologist working for a major recruitment firm - she has been known to overnight in the office to keep the place running.

A person with a good work ethic can achieve anything they want BUT if the support and understanding isn't there at home it can place unnecesary hurdles in your way

For example, I know an extremely hard-working pilot but his wife's family... well, they never really had to work all that hard. She has no concept of why a bloke would need to spend 12 hours/day at work (he owns the business) and not 9-5. "You're the boss, you can decide when you go can't you?"

Gotta keep the big picture and the objective firmly in the front of your mind, - and hers.

Good luck

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