simonchowder you really have crossed the line on this one!
In answer to your question curious 2010 both airlines have an excellent safety record with very good reputations for crew training etc, the aircraft with both airlines are maintained to a european high standard.
Fear of flying is horrible and as much as i could give you all the usual statistics etc it will not help with your fobia. May i suggest you talk with your doctor regarding some medication or treatment? I wish you all the best and safe travel.
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