All I can say is buy Trevor Thom book 1. It will have all the answers you are looking for.
For your information, the first lesson will involve 'effect of controls', i.e. what happens when you pull back on the stick, press the left rudder pedal etc. etc. You will then move on to secondary effect of controls, i.e. roll also causes yaw, and yaw also causes roll!
Dont worry about all this too much, that is what you pay an instructor for.
Iain