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You make a great point about facing reality. Too hard though :-) I much like Biscuit's idea about becoming alcoholic. Sounds easier and a lot more fun!
My point was that you were branding that guy or calling him gay is if being gay was inferior. Just like me saying you are being very female or being one of those virgin blue tarts. (I don't think any virgin girl is a tart, by the way, just using it as an example).
So thanks for understanding anyway. Your posts are some of the most intellegent on here.