I'm a retired BA captain. I have also been a union member from the age of fifteen to present and am reluctant to tell other union members how to conduct their business (I was a strike rep at the age of 18) HOWEVER, I do feel that BASSA need a reality assessment.
1. Thanks to a threatened strike which did not occur YOU disrupted the lives of those who pay your salary.
2. London based crew have shouted "Scab!" in public at JFK at other BA cabin crew.
3. My elder son travelled JFK-LHR on BA178 on 24th Dec and has reported that the cabin crew were a pretty grumpy lot.
There's an old saying: "**** or get off the pot!"
Go on strike like honorable people or work properly.
You should be ashamed of yourselves.