Nelly the Nav (how very apt),
Regardless of your attempts to protect yourself from any accusation of libel you are, in my view sailing very close to the wind at this point; and as foldingwings suggested, so is FJJP. Whoever you may be, PPRuNe does not deserve you.
Other's opinions, such as Flying Lawyer and Proone (neither of whom you will be aware of), are doubtless unable to make comment - for reasons that, if they could, would be obvious to you.
Mods??