But when he's on the ground and you're all safe, he's fair game?? That's really warped, I think you need help!
She's clearly saying 2 different things:
1) No cabin crew is gonna tamper with the food of the pilot who's flying the aircraft they are on. As she said, "I don't think ANYONE on our crew had a death wish."
2) However, no one in the cabin crew likes / trusts this capt.