Brother,
If you think the natty uniform of a cheap pilots shirt, "NATO" wooly-pully, cheap tie and shoes (that are constantly wearing thin on one side due to the constant use of rudder) impresses the ladies i think you should frequent some more upmarket pubs !
More than likely you will get mistaken for a copper (one cabair instructor at elstree was and got pelted with coins by some yobbos) or if you go into B+Q someone will ask you were the MDF is kept !!
Seriously, I don't know what you are looking for
pl instruction is about gaining experience and making a little pocket money as you do.Occassionally nice things may happen such as a private owner witha nice a/c who wants you to go with him to France or whatever ( I got a trip to Leipzig off one such)but thats it......