Without wishing to play down the complexity of flying civil passenger aircraft (what with me being an ex-stacker and all) surely the ins and outs of learning to operate a complicated flying weapon system is slightly more difficulty than learning how to operate a flying bus, and couldn't the same be said about the technical aspects of servicing/maintaining them?
As I say, not wishing to play down what you do but the competent use of modern fast jets does, at least to my admittedly untrained eyes, seem a little different to operating passenger jets, in fact so different that attempting to draw comparisons is pointless.