Thanks NJM, your condolences are appreciated.
VH-XXX - thanks, I understand what you mean, and I have no expectations. I am in close contact with the ATSB guys and know how long this could all take, and then the possibility it will answer very few questions, ones I probably already know the answers too anyway. It is their job to investigate, Im just watching how it goes. Emothionally I am well prepared for the long haul with perhaps no light at the end of the tunnel.
In the meantime life goes on and I have a plane to get in the air!