Well mate, if you work for a company where jobs are handed out because the boss expects some sort of sexual reward, you are pretty much screwed (if you'll pardon the pun). God knows why anyone would want to work for such a boss, but I suppose desperation does that to you.
Those of us that live in the real world select people on a slightly more logical basis...
BTW if you want to advance in your career, a little bit of attention to spelling and grammar wouldn't go astray... most employers like that sort of stuff...