Smartcol.
You don't mention your age or educational qualifications but if applicable, have you considered joining the military? I'm not familiar with the current requirements in the UK but over here qualified pilots often join the military if they can't find a civvy job. For example several laid off Ansett pilots have joined the RAAF. Both the military and civvy companies go through periods of too many pilots and then suddenly there's a shortage. Check out the world scene, especially unpleasant places where most people don't want to work; at this point getting experience and some good flying under your belt might be more important than having a ball.
Finally don't fly for free; in the long run it doesn't pay off. Good luck and hang in there.