Jose
You asked for people to give you their opinion within the whole of the UK. They have done so. However you seem fixated by Stapleford and Bournemouth which you have visited.
I suggest that you visit Stapleford and make up your own mind because it seems you do not wish to know about other places.
All that will inevitably happen (it already has started!) that people will start a slanging match - so I am closing the thread.
HWB