Not a bad post subject if approached tactfully.
Listing all the things (here) that bother you gives pause to others at least to understand what may be a bother.
Many are minor and best suffered in silence for a single flight.
Some are best handled then and there.
remember, what's irritating to you may be acceptable in general.
The more major common distractions need to be addressed in training.
communication skills are paramont they can not be addressed by whining.
Specific suggestions by other pilots might be helpful here.