I may be misunderstanding, but that is not the record at all.
My kids don't live off wannabe spending. They are wannabes spending! They spend their own money and my money. My kids are what I supply to the wannabe industry, as customers!
I haven't been directly involved with that side of the industry for the last 29 years.
The only reason I don't like what you write in this respect, is because you have no experience of it, and as a parent I feel your advice is irresponsible. Nothing wrong with that in itself, but from a moderator it is a bit of a concern frankly.
I feel it is fair to therefore counter your assertions and opinions, free from the threat of being kicked out of the discussion simply for disagreeing with them, and failing to be put down by dismissive nonsense.
There you go again with your prejudicial presumptions, hopefully that corrects the record.