And I have been an observer 1 dot low on the G/S with a pilot who was obviously living a hard life like yours who decided to flare just a bit too late driving the mains into the ground (DC-10-30) who bounced us like a carne, it was fun hearing the RA call out 30 for the 2nd time as we were probably more than 15kts too slow in a stall slamming the right gear down. I never whined about it. Sing me a song sunshine.
I have more stories, what is your point? It is hard to be a nursemaid too, having to listen to a baby cry all day.