Good luck Pete and please take with a pinch of salt, any comments you may come across on another popular aviation based forum. Freedom of speech and all that, but I do wish people would not preach about subjects/people they know nothing of.
I am sure you will get your chance soon, the market will pick up (as it always does) and an experienced DEC 777 guy like you should be worth his weight in gold.
Your reasons for leaving BA are your own.It was obviously a hard decision for both you and your wife to make and a brave one at that, but well thought out I'm sure.
Enjoy the time with your family and if you can, keep your chin up.
Remember, the media only build you up to knock you down at the first opportunity. They can be heartless.
All the best.
JAS
Nick