Mmmayday38- I wish you all the best for the future. It has been absolutely outrageous the things people have been saying, here and in the papers and worst of all, from the cabin crew managerial and training department, without being able to overrule them. As a result of that incident and the terrible responsibility it placed on you, your career has been sent on an unintended path. I'm sorry you felt obliged to leave. Amongst pilot colleagues, you have universal respect, yet even in this forum, you have faced awful critical comments. I hope these can be squashed once and for all, because they are wrong, and subjecting an individual to such unjustified criticism is not what this forum is about.
Good luck, and I hope you get back to enjoying your aviating!