I quite agree that the next of kin should hear about it from the police or other authority before names are released in the media, or any informal forum.
The police have now informed the next of kin, and released the victims' names in the media; Peter Fitzmaurice (67) from Alton (Hants), and Stuart Francis from Camberley (Surrey).
My condolences to all who knew them.
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