I don't understand it. If you people don't like discussions about aviation events unless they're on the BBC, what are you doing on PPRuNe?. We don't want your pompous pontifications, and you don't like reading speculation so why are you here?
It wouldn't be so bad if there was any logic. If details of who has been killed is going to reach the next of kin, why are you bothered by the mechanism or timing? Personally if someone close to me might have crashed I'd rather get information as soon as possible, even if it might not be 100% correct. It's highly unlikely that what is said here would be the primary route to those affected.
You may find this kind of event distasteful - it takes all sorts - but please don't clog up the threads with pointless moaning. The rest of us want to try and understand what sorts of things go wrong, and why, if there are any patterns that apply to us.