Slim_Slag,
Thanks again, sound advice. (the marriage thing especially!)
For others that are interested i have found out that........
To work over in the States (as a CFI), a J1 Visa (that is only issued if you are commencing training with a U.S organisation) is necessary, And that as a JAA instructor, you can't instruct (even in a JAA school) in an 'N' reg. a/c. so you would need an FAA license anyway.
Oh well, does any one one know any nice girls not in the U.S.!!???