Sigh, your mob just don't get it do you. Have you ever heard of helping, manners, decency, consideration? I will try to explain it this way, how would you like your mum/girlfriend/wife/nan, treated on a aircraft you were working on? I suspect with the above. No wonder there is so much complaints from pax if that is now the current C/C attitude, from SOME cabin crew. Nobody is asking you to heave bags into the overhead lockers, just to assist someone who is struggling, not to hard is it?