MOTF
Please don't get the impression that military aircrew dislike enthusiasts. Spotters maybe, but not true enthusiasts.
I think what has rankled Flaps and Stop Start is the fact that you have called into question the professionalism of 558s crew. That is a pretty serious accusation to make. Asking if the weather is suitable as per your original post is fair enough. Posting photos trying to back up your uninformed opinion that it wasn't is something I thought only a Sun reporter would resort to.
By the way, the weather in the photos looks more than good enough for the flypasts.