Teresa Green,
I know where you are coming from.
However, you can provide training to candidate, you can give him the benefit of your experience, but you can't give him your experience. When a pilot trainee has met the training requirements of the job in hand, he is then on his own and is licenced to kill both himself and his passengers.
That unfortunately is his affair, and in no way, is it any of your business.
Reflect on the hugely successful careers of the many other pilots you have trained if you must...we only get one shot at this thing called life.
Living is a dangerous occupation that inevitably ends up in death...so we must concentrate on enjoying what we can before the final curtain call!