Jeez Mensa turn it in will you. You're like a stuck record. You say lots without saying anything at all!
Has it ever occurred to you that perhaps, just maybe, a guy would look at joining here because earning an F/O's salary, having a house paid for, and being able to get credit is infinately better than... having your house re-possessed by the bank, going up the DHSS to claim your unemployment gyro every Thursday, and having to feed your kids grass?
Get your head out of your arse, and look at what's going on around you old chum.
BTW, if all you ever achieve is minimum days off every month, then get someone to teach you how to bid properly...... Mensa? Dimwit more like!