So golfcharlie232 you found my post hurtful on the other thread because you obviously failed. Don't let that cloud and shape the vital information you pass on to others. Please try to be objective when you post.
How about PAT at Bournemouth if you are looking in the area? From what I have heard they deliver what they offer and at a relatively good price.
There are lots of little hidden costs when flying from a place like Stapleford, like not being able to do you IR there and having to fly up to the likes of Cranfield to do the test. Something to consider. There fleet however are great for the training. Swings and roundabouts.
I personally would give Cabair a huge swerve, but that's me.
Also give the Oxford Waypoint Programme and The Bristol Flight schools a look. There are plenty of good facilities locally to Bristol so flight times can be kept down and you could perhaps save on accomodation as, by the looks of it you live locally.
And the best option? Leave it for a good two years and comeback.