I'm mostly know as 'and you'!!!!
"Captain, would you like a coffee, - and you?"
If this happened on my airplane, that particular cabin crew member would be sent to the lower galley, and a new R1 found, pronto.
Further,
our CC members positively know better than to try this 'and you?' nonsense..because they have been so instructed by the head shed.
Anyone who wants to be referred to as Captain instead of his name must have some deepseated image problems. I would not want to fly with him as crew or pax.
I expect you would not be invited.
