It is indeed a democracy. It is better for these embittered people to remain outside BALPA, along with the crafties who avoid membership whilst being perfectly happy to benefit from the contract enhancements that BALPA may negotiate in their companies! Just think what unpleasantness they may get up to, and what their negative attitude may bring! Most people see the attractions and protection that BALPA provides for them, and are happy to be members contributing something positive.
I am not, and have never been a BALPA official, but I have to congratulate the Association for riding to my support totally unbidden at a difficult time (thankfully passed) in a smallish independent. We do have a free choice of being a member or not. Better those that have such a bad attitude 'plow their own furrow'! BALPA sees many of them in trouble banging at the door for help- a bit like calling the AA for help when you are not a member! Go your way chaps, and good luck to you! Help is not available any longer 'after the event', with 'retrospective' subscriptions. By all means plow your furrow as well as you can, but no need to denigrate the Association to all others. Your way is not right.