I find this whole thread quite amazing. If I was a member of the WLAC and had paid good money for my subscription, then you have to understand that I have joined WLAC because I like what I see and like the fellow aviators that I meet and want to keep it like that.
I have not forked out my dosh to join a CLUB that suddenly allows every man and his dog (sorry dogs) to come traipsing into MY club with squalling brats etc etc and with no interest whatsoever in aviation and then exit stage left with the club's flat screen TV in their pockets.
I have always enjoyed flying into White Waltham and have always been made welcome.
As I said earlier, if you want to arrive by road, then offer to pay the landing fee that you would have paid anyway. If that is not acceptable to you then either apply to join the club or else b*gger off to the nearest McDonalds.
It really is very simple.