However the moment we run away from the reality that accidents happen and the names and facts are public we are heading for a bury the head in the sand scenario
You will notice that Annex 13 accident reports never mention any names, and that in no way detracts from the investigation or from its goal of accident prevention. That is the ethos shared by most people who read and contribute to this site, as aviators interested in learning from those occurrences.
While I personally do not care whether you name every dead man, his dog, and his plane, I would consider doing that as mere social gossip with no aviation relevance whatsoever (and perhaps a bit sensationalist).
Somehow I feel I really shouldn't have to spell this out, btw.