Sorry I do not see it that way
I think if someone said thanks and gave me a bit of tin with a ribbon on it as a "consolation prize" for losing a loved one, I would tell them where to shove it, and shove it so far up that when they smiled it would twinkle in the sunlight..........
Give them a decent bloody pension that they can live on...........
This all Smacks of Labour bloody spin again to paper over the cracks of crap equipment, lack of support and to make them feel good.........
There I have had my say...