TDK mk2:
My advice is do what you feel safe to do. Putting your pax at risk is putting yourself at risk which at worst could be to deny your offspring a dad. Evaluate it that way and you will make the right choices !
p.s. congrats on the (fairly) recent arrival - mine is at 7 months and wow they are hard work - thankful for the jumperoo at least I can put him down for ten mins have a smoke and let him wear himself out lol.