but remember they are OLD people that do not have a life and are on their 3rd wife,
Of course he has a life, he's on his third wife. Do I actually fly with people that make such inane posts. In my experience in any company there are a proportion of pilots that are incapable of making important life decisions on their own. Aviation is a lottery and every so often you have to make a decision, but you,alone, have to take responsibility for that decision.