I dont think this is an isolated case, these jobsworths seem to live around most U.K airfields. Being an instructor I have been on the recieving end of their irate rantings on the phone, it is some kind of disease they have and their lives become totally consumed by it (remember the case a couple of years ago when an instructor was up in court for alledgedly low flying,got off with it due to the wlidly differing evidence of the complainants).
Best bet EDITOR is F**k **f and live somewhere else because all your winging IMHO wont matter one bit to those enjoying theirselves at Headcorn. Where I instruct we take it in turns to answer the phone to people like yourself and all we do is give you a good listening to then p**s ourselves with laughter at your somewhat feeble complaints (which are like stuck records these days) when you have hung up.
REALLY REALLY sorry I cant give you any more help on this matter but you could try either your doctor or the sammaritans.