As I mentioned earlier, the cemetary is at approx grid ref TQ 10168 74637. Alternatively, cut and paste this into Google Earth and it will show you the precise parking area I'm referring to - 51 27.677N 0 25.025W
From Hatton Cross head down the lane past the Green Man pub to the traffic lights and turn right on the dual carriageway. The entrance to the cemetary is just along on the right... just past there it's possible to turn right, back on yourself at a gap in the central reservation.... then first left into the entrance. Drive about 100 yards over some speed bumps and park on the right.
Beauty of this place is you can snap away from the comfort of your car - just park at an angle and shoot out of the window. My wife is disabled and has great trouble standing for long so this place suits her..