Customs of the Services - Gp Capt A H Stradling OBE
A great read, first published in 1939 and subtitled 'Being helpful hints and advice to those newly commissioned'. Useful advice includes:
Try to avoid travelling in the same compartment as other ranks. It probably embarrasses both of you. If not travelling on a first-class warrant, and funds are low, try to find a 3rd class compartment not occupied by any other ranks.
Remember these are social calls. A lounge suit shall be worn. The correct time for calling is 3pm to 5pm Monday to Friday. Laxity is creeping in and nowadays junior officers do not object to your calling between 5:30pm and 6:30pm or on Saturdays and Sundays.
Choose your drink with at least the same care that you would your food. Unless you wish to appear uneducated in these matters, never drink more than one sherry or short drink before a meal; you will spoil your palate.
A classic if you can find a copy.
N Joe