I too am sorry for your loss, but I also tell it like it is.
Just because a male airline employee was "hysterical", that makes him "a raging gay"? I honestly did have sympathy for your case but sadly, like TightSlot, I've lost all that sympathy and also respect for you. That tends to happen when you let emotion and prejudice cloud logic and judgement, which is exactly what you've done.
One parting thought: the terminology you use to describe political correctness, "a creeping disease", could equally be applied to what you have expressed through your ill-chosen words - homophobia.