Your lack of any level of maturity is showing
Fruet Mich. Far from being "out of touch" my experience here and very recently in NZ have highlighted these differences. You really need to experience some life before you start drivelling on as you do.
$65k and living in AKL??? You poor hard-done-by wee thing. Makes my $22k living in NZQN/NZWF seem a wastefully salubrious lifestyle
-any wonder I left??? Nah, the real wonder is I would go back to it in a heartbeat. In fact, I
will do very soon. I really would like to have your problems
FM. Grow up, fetch yourself a can of Harden Up and get on with it. You really don't know which direction your arse is pointing in.